Remember! This coming Sunday, myself and oodles of other talented people will be vending at the Mourning Market! 12-5PM at Club Motor (1950 1st Ave Seattle, WA 98134). I will be selling the Gothic Charm School book, art prints from the book, hand-embroidered "cranky" bloomers, and stripy heart brooches. Come on by and say hello!

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Yes, I have been thinking about a second Gothic Charm School book. (Because I ... have too much free time? Something like that.) An obvious subject for me to expand upon would be fashion, because hello, I like talking about clothes. (I'm considering including a few tutorials, but I'm leery of treading over well-worn ground that others such as Voltaire have covered.)

Which leads to my question! What sort of things would you like to see in another Gothic Charm School book? Tell me in the comments. Brainstorming is fun!

From: [identity profile] twilight2000.livejournal.com


While I'm not exactly your target market, I'd love to see a chapter on the "Corporate Goth" - it's a lovely look, and so often only described for the Men Folk. It's a look I'd adopt if I could find the pieces in a rather larger size... Some of the more unlikely combinations might be fun in a chapter about Unlikely Combinations (SeaGoths, Bohemian Goths, etc).

And as for Voltaire, the classics are never out of style ('sides, you can reference that work and get some of the baby bats to go look him up - not ALL of those who identify as goth as well read as you, m'dear ;>)
Edited Date: 2010-02-04 10:54 pm (UTC)

From: [identity profile] staxxy.livejournal.com


I believe the Voltaire in question is this one:

http://www.amazon.com/What-Goth-Voltaire/dp/1578633222/ref=sr_1_21?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1265324930&sr=8-21


:)

From: [identity profile] twilight2000.livejournal.com


Ack! That'll teach me to make assumptions ;>. Thanks!

I will note, after a quick perusal of some of their material, that I suspect they would reach two rather different audiences just from style of prose...

From: [identity profile] valerian.livejournal.com


I have to agree with the CorpGoth suggestion - after all, you've had many a letter asking about concerns/suggestions for what's safe/acceptable to wear in the workplace, school etc, and yet still be one's Gothy self.

From: [identity profile] gloomsan.livejournal.com


I have your book along with both of Voltaires books. I loved his first book but I found the second, Paint it black to be so lacking. I was looking forward to the section on a goth wedding (which I am planning) and found it mostly useless

I agree with the corporate goth thing, I struggle to combine my work look and normal look together without looking like a crazy bat lady.


If you do another book would you do sighned editions on the gothic charm school website for us who like outside the states? (I is geeky)

From: [identity profile] trystbat.livejournal.com


A collaboration with me about home decor! (And I'm not entirely joking bec., c'mon, Voltaire's thing was pretty sad.)
Edited Date: 2010-02-05 12:03 am (UTC)

From: [identity profile] staxxy.livejournal.com


items to be covered that you have not yet:

-The corp goth. More details on wardrobe, desk decor, dealing with coworkers, etc.

-LOOK THROUGH YOUR READER QUESTIONS. No really. What do you get asked about the most frequently?

-DIY. make your own necklaces, add your own trim, various different tips and tricks for easily modifying a clothing item to tailor it better for your tastes. Bulk trim... getting inspiration from historical references... Trying things out and not being afraid...

-I, honestly, think it would be fun if there was not just a DIY chapter but a chapter of recipes as well. You could include your ginger bats, I can give you my recipe for violet shortbread, and you could even include drink recipes.

-Makeup tips. More details.

-a dreadful thing but a chapter on self esteem and the goth. Be who you want to be, why that's okay, etc. I know you get a lot of questions about this.

-Embarrassment and Social Faux Pas - How to conduct yourself with grace in the midst of drama, calamity, or wardrobe malfunctions. How to best prepare against major calamities (like carrying safety pins, a small comb, a mirror, lipstick, or whatever else may be needed on a moments notice).

Didn't we do an outline that things got pulled out of when you started the first one? I remember there was a good deal of brain storming at the time and some things were set aside.


From: [identity profile] bijouxdejais.livejournal.com


I'm in agreement with the above suggestions; more specific/mundane information, tips and advice would be wonderful. And also, it's nice to see you actually taking a bite from the cupcake for once!

From: [identity profile] dark-catnap.livejournal.com


{Its true, you are very very very pretty.}

But I love your response. Very awesome. XD -is still chuckling.-

From: [identity profile] sparrowpunk.livejournal.com


I'd like to see something about dressing for your body shape- I see a lot of people at the local goth club who I just want to take shopping (thinking on it, something about makeup would be good too so I don't wish I could go up to people with wet wipes :P). Possibly how-tos on easy to make clothes, or repairs/quick customisations (I'm completely spacing on the word, but quick things you can do when something doesn't quite fit or flatter that don't involve safety pins :)

Corporate goth and stuff for male goths in general would be fantastic, I haven't seen very much of that, and I'd love to see goth home decor stuff- I liked Paint It Black but I was through it in ten minutes, which made me a bit sad after paying so much for it. I've seen and gotten great use out of Gothic Martha Stewart, but I'd definitely like to see more on that subject...

From: [identity profile] mirandapadgett.livejournal.com


- Home decor!
- More on fashion, including possibly some basic pattern instructions (yes! you CAN convince them to sew!)
- Makeup tips for goths of a certain age

From: [identity profile] weaselmom.livejournal.com


I don't necessarily want to see more of the same topics you already covered. People can buy the first book for that. I love the recipe idea. And maybe not necessarily in one place - sprinkled throughout, maybe, a pleasant little surprise to come upon. I also like home decor and gardening. There have been various "goth gardening" Web pages but not collected or summarized, and of course when things disappear, that's it. Goth outings and entertaining - maybe some of your newer/younger readers don't really know what other things they could do (or even instigate) in their own communities or in the world at large (Bats Day at Disneyland! Night-time tea party with croquet! Full-moon-viewing party! You'll think of stuff...). I would also love to see little anecdotes of your own experiences sprinkled throughout (not integrated into chapters necessarily) - a few paragraphs at a time of Interesting or Amusing Gothy Encounters You Have Had.

Sorry if this is incoherent. It has been a long, long week. I might be able to clarify later. Much later.

From: [identity profile] cherry-faery.livejournal.com


First of all: DO IT!! The Gothic Charm School book was fantastic but it was gone too soon for me. I was sad to finish reading it because I loved it so much. :)

And on that note, when you do the next book, I would love to see more fashion stuff because it's always more fun to read about something that someone loves and with you it was shows. As far as the tutorials go, it would be fine I think. For one, you have different skills and tricks than anyone else out there and sharing them is always good. It might be that you have a way that someone else might not have thought of or something like that.

And finally, this is a good idea. For as much as there are books about Goth culture, there's not enough and yours is fun. We need more.

From: [identity profile] oldhalloween.livejournal.com


As someone else mentioned Gothic wedding attire and etiquette would be wonderful. That section would also have cross over appeal for the Halloween wedding crowd. Many of my Halloween customers are sent to Kambriel. I hear over and over again I had no idea there were designers who made wedding attire for those who love the dark and beautiful.

From: [identity profile] elizabathory.livejournal.com


Goth Parenting perhaps?

I do like the suggestions on Home Decor. Yes, Voltaire covered it (and yes, for some unknown reason I own two copies of Paint It Black - go figure), but it was more of breeze through than a comprehensive how-to.

DIY... A lot of my inspiration comes from tutes from other places, for other genres, leaving me to apply my own delicate colour adjustments... :)

The suggestion of going through your questions is a good one as well...

From: [identity profile] insigniaeclipse.livejournal.com


Corporate Goth for females(or is that just for males? I'm a bit of a newb still). I want to know more about this ^_^. And those like me who can't pull off full goth finery. I like to call myself an Elemental Goth. I can wear elements of goth without looking like I'm giving the gorgeousness that is gothic fashion a bad name :S.

Home Decor

From: [identity profile] kibarika.livejournal.com


I'd like to reinforce the corp goth request. As much as I want to be myself, it's especially hard in a K-12 setting to be gothy. My wardrobe has ended up with at least a whole load of pastels in it, because I was trying to dress like a teacher. (Now that I'm back to grad student, those don't get worn so much.)

And also yes yes yes to the cooking, drink-mixing, gardening ideas. I heartily agree with the folks who were sad to finish the first.

It might be worthwhile (though I could be wrong) to spend a little concentrated time on "Yes, You Are Goth Enough." It was scattered throughout the first one, but people like myself, subdued goths, can always stand to hear it again.

From: [identity profile] lylassandra.livejournal.com


I think a lot of the the goths-in-real-life ideas are great-- the wedding, parenting, and corporate suggestions particularly.

The parenting thing could also spin off well into a "how to integrate your life and your gothiness" chapter. So many of your readers seem to think that when they sign up, they have to stop going to church, give up Star Trek, and never dream about being a Disney princess again (or whatever their particular deal is). Tips on how to be a good observant whatever and be goth, reassurance that you can love X and be goth, and a bit on parenting gothily--but with the understanding that your kids may not follow in your footsteps--would be great topics.

(One of my favorite stories is of my sister going to the beach on a very sunny SoCal day and spotting a goth couple dressed to the nines, right down to their steel-toed boots, standing there. Just as she was starting to wonder why they were braving the Orb, a little blonde girl in pink ran up to them saying, "Mommy Daddy look I found a shell!" I wanted to go back and hug them.)

From: [identity profile] dark-catnap.livejournal.com


I love that story! It is so cute. I agree with wanting to go and hug them!

hehe.. I'll go away now.

From: [identity profile] sixtylilies.livejournal.com


Some input from the peanut gallery:

I would absolutely love a second Gothic Charm School book, especially if it focused more on fashion (which is my favorite part of being a goth). And tutorials are always useful! I can use all the DIY tips I can get my black-nailed hands on.

From: [identity profile] lottiekate.livejournal.com


A how to dress book? About fashion? Sounds amazing.

From: [identity profile] strange-lydia.livejournal.com


*Definately* Fashion and makeup, and someone mentioned DIY, I'd love to be more proficient at that. :)

From: [identity profile] kolizeon.livejournal.com


Corp goth, dressing for your body type, some cute DIY tuts on simple accessories and maybe a suggestion for where to find good patterns? (If you have favorite patterns, anyways.) Recipes are a terrific idea! And I really cannot wait for the new book I'm already so excited just thinking about you thinking about it!

From: [identity profile] morseren.livejournal.com


On topic I have not seen covered that would be most helpful is aging and the gothic subculture. Yes, by far it *is* a youth culture. But some of us are well into our 40s and 50s and still adhere to the dark aesthetic. A person can still live their gothic lifestyle beyond the clubbing years in graceful elegance and not become a mockery in age inappropriate and body type inappropriate attire for both men and women.

Home decor would also be a wonderful addition to a second "Gothic Charm School" book. Voltaire's books are nice but give a more dorm room or "my first apartment" look than most older goths may be comfortable with, especially if they have kiddlings running around.

From: [identity profile] blonde-lili.livejournal.com


Yes! And further to this, I'd be interested in advice for (and seeing examples of) surviving the scary transition to adulthood. I'm 26 now and see 30 looming ominously on the horizon. I have a full-time job, a long-term partner and now a mortgage - basically, I've moved into the terrifying realm of the 'grown-up'. That can be a scary place to be, regardless of subcultural leanings. It is always comforting to see that while new responsibilities and expenses might restrict your ability to go to clubs, concerts or fill your wardrobe with wonderful, expensive clothes, you DO NOT have to sacrifice your identity and ideals. Unfortunately, a lot of people (goth and non-goth alike) don't realise this.

Some simple craft/diy projects might be fun, too :).

From: [identity profile] pathdancer.livejournal.com


Which leads to my question! What sort of things would you like to see in another Gothic Charm School book? Tell me in the comments. Brainstorming is fun!

Personally - this beside the fact that I've seen you write before on the subject - I'd like to see something on *how* an almost 50-something newbie breaks through inhibitions to embrace and express her Inner Goth. Maybe educating myself more on fashion would do it, or maybe it's because my newbie-ness is showing through, but I'm finding taking the initial jump to be highly intimidating (the inner dialog is going "Aren't you a little old for this?"

First steps... how does one take those first steps? That would probably be as relevant for a 20-year-old as for a 50-year-old.

From: [identity profile] lanenkylar.livejournal.com

A Simply Charming Tea?


Or dinner party? Or some other adult-goth-consuming-food soirée? The chapter could include things like invitations, how to RSVP for parties, what to wear (and what NOT to wear), decor, and all sorts of other charming things.

From: [identity profile] reileen.livejournal.com

I have no goth icon on here, angst!


I would love to see a second GCS book! Echoing suggestions about fashion, DIY, home decor, and recipes.

Related to the fashion idea - Emilie Autumn mentioned in an interview a while back that she kind of thought of her style as being gothic without involving heavy use of the color black. I'm also reminded of an anecdote someone told me of a goth girl she knew at her high school who dressed every day in white, head-to-toe. I'm not sure how you could possibly incorporate that, but it might be something to think about...?

Regardless, I love your first GCS book to bits and pieces and will look forward to a potential second one!

From: [identity profile] roberts-muse.livejournal.com


FANTABULOUS!!! I'd love another book. I think one thing there should be lots of are pictures! I love looking at pics--of home decor, fashion, make-up. The drawings are awesome--how about some colour pics?

From: [identity profile] abhasana.livejournal.com


Clothing, definitely! (Are we sensing a trend? ;) ) I've had a difficult time finding male-type wardrobe items. I can do just fine on the day-to-day look, but I've always been disappointed with the ready made items available in stores or on websites. I'm sure some people really go for the "baggy pants covered in spikes" look, but it's not for me. I can sew and am pretty crafty but inspiration can be hard to come by.

I think it'd be fun to see a section with event ideas; these could be easily framed around the etiquette of hosting and being a guest. Not necessarily elaborate events - the basics of afternoon tea, picnicking, scary movie night, and so forth. (I've personally always wanted to get together with some friends, get dressed up, and attend one of the local fashion shows that happen here a few times a year, but that's yet to happen.)

It doesn't have to be giving much space, but some words on the importance and fun of DIY are never out of place. Self-empowerment is awesome.

(PS - I recently bought your book and I've really enjoyed it. The content is great, but what really makes it for me are things like the nice paper and cover. I'm a book nerd and so am a sucker for books that are beautiful as well as fun to read.)

From: [identity profile] corvidaen.livejournal.com


Goth fashion at church/other religious activity.
As an offshoot of Corporate Goth--how to dress for an interview?

From: [identity profile] corvidaen.livejournal.com


Tips for fashion at church/other religious activities?
And, as an offshoot of Corporate Goth, how to dress for an interview?

From: [identity profile] its-crabapple.livejournal.com


My vote would be to dedicate a book to specific social situations.

Weddings, Birthdays, Workplace, and so on. A book for each one.

photos! Not just illustrations!
Get some people together and stage photos for the things you discuss. a scene showing a mortified mundane grandmother seeing her grandson's bride in a black dress with skulls for example? Heck, make that the cover...


From: [identity profile] tura.livejournal.com

General lifestyle stuff



I would especially like some articles on how to be tastefully gothic when one goes from being "a goth girl" to being "a gothic woman of a certain age".

We are the first generation of women to grow up in a world where these lifestyle choices were really an option and it up to us to make things easier on the next generation. Tight vinyl isn't always going to be appropriate clubwear, how do we transition to a more mature look and outlook without sacrificing our aesthetics and philosophy.

And stuff like that...you know...stuff.
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From: [identity profile] tonks07.livejournal.com


I'd love to see a second book! I picked up the first one on a whim and fell in love. I'm seconding some ideas in above comments in what I'd like to see but here they are:

- Advice for baby bats first time at a goth club
-Definitely more fashion/make-up and DIY.Fashion tips for all ages.Maybe even throw in some hair style tips.
-Goth weddings
-Goth event suggestions
-people to look to for inspiration
-and like someone else said I'd love to see more of your personal stories/experiances throughout.

From: [identity profile] bleumoon-selene.livejournal.com


A second book sounds gleefully wonderful!!!!

I've often thought that a chapter about plus sized goths would be interesting.

I hope this is the sort of brainstorming you were looking for.

From: [identity profile] ozitonaranjo.livejournal.com


Corpgoth, parenting, DIY home decor... The possibilities are endless

From: [identity profile] dark-catnap.livejournal.com

Cross Dressing Goths?


Well, aside from what everyone else has said about clothing etc, and DIY. I would like to see some types on cross dressing goth and pulling it off well? For instance, if you are a female, dressing as a victorian gentleman of the goth persuasion, how to not.. cross any bounderies? Tips like that would be most appreciated.

Maybe tips on dealing in the workplace with people who just dont plain like you?

Or more tips on summer goth clothing, so we dont die if we do brave the orb?

{Clothing does seem to be the way to go.}

From: [identity profile] mimibean.livejournal.com


This may be a bit late in the game to answer your question, but I only just noticed it last night when I went to Goth-Industrial night at the club down here.

I noticed, at least at this particular club, that like any group of people, we tend to be sort of cliqueish and wary of people who are not in the fold already. (Even, I, who am essentially in the fold and know a lot of people there, have trouble with this.) Could you give a tutorial for those who are new to the scene and shy?

I know you covered this a bit in the chapter in GCS about attending goth events with the do's and don'ts (like "Don't tell someone you love their costume.") But I was thinking more along the lines of conversation starters.

Hope that helps.

From: [identity profile] sashstar.livejournal.com

Pregnancy


Any chance you could write a chapter specifically about Pregnant Goths? Goth Mums-to-be are a topic I really am struggling to find info about. I'd like to know about Maternity Wear that is gothic and other issues related to being a Pregnant Goth. Thanks and good luck with it all! :o)
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