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Name:cupcake_goth
Birthdate:Nov 17
Location:Washington, United States of America
Website:Gothic Charm School
I'm an ElderGoth who has been described as a cartoon character or as an escapee from the brain of Tim Burton. Both statements make me giggle delightedly.

I'm also known as the Lady of the Manners, proprietor of Gothic Charm School(clicky-link to the website!), an advice and etiquette website for goths and other counter-cultures.

Hey, did you know that I wrote a book? Gothic Charm School: An Essential Guide For Goths And Those Who Love Them. (clicky-link to Amazon.com!)

What else? I have a strong sense of whimsy, I like cupcakes, and yes, if I leave the house, I'm wearing an outfit that includes petticoats and probably a top hat. Oh, and I'm the person in charge of clovisdvlbunny, who will one day rule the world.

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30 days of night, absinthe, addams family, addams family values, alan moore, alt.gothic.fashion, amanda fucking palmer, anno dracula, auntie mame, bat buckles, batcave, bats, bauhaus, beauty, beetlejuice, big skirts, black and pink stripes, black and white stripes, black cats, black lace, black phoenix alchemy lab, black velvet, blank books, brian froud, buffistas, bustles, caitlin r. kiernan, cameos, carnivals, cemeteries, clovis the devilbunny, coraline, corsets, costume dramas, costume movies, costumes, crows, cupcake gothic, cupcakes, d.i.y., dark chocolate, deathrock, decadence, diy fashion, dracula, edward gorey, egl, ellen schreiber, emilie autumn, evangeline ghastly, evil bunny alliance, evil overlords, eyeliner, fabric, fairy tales, faith and the muse, fiction, fido, fluevogs, fluffy skirts, folk magic, fortune tellers, fountain pens, frock coats, funeral coaches, fuzzy monsters, general silliness, ghost stories, gingerbread bats, goblins, goth, gothic, gothic charm school, gothic ephemera, gothic fashion, gothic fiction, gothic miss manners, gothic romances, graveyards, halloween, harry potter, hatpins, hats, headology, hedge witchery, horror, jack o'lanterns, jet beads, jill tracy, kim harrison, kim newman, kipling west, lace, lost souls, make-believe, makeup, marie antoinette, masks, military-style jackets, millinery, mini tophats and tricorns, mirrormask, moulin rouge, mourning clothing, mourning jewelry, my chemical romance, mysticism, narativium, neil gaiman, nightmare before christmas, observing the goth scene, old cemeteries, oldfashionhalloween.com, parasols, petticoats, pink fishnets, pink lace, pink velvet, pirate hats, pirates, pirates of the carribean, placebo, pointy boots, pointy shoes, rasputina, ravens, ray bradbury, reading, red velvet, romantic goths, scary godmother, seances, sepiachord, shaun of the dead, shiny things, signs and portents, silly goth movies, siouxsie and the banshees, sisters of mercy, skull cameos, sleep, sleepy hollow, something wicked this way comes, spiritualism, steampunk, stripy tights, stuffed demons, supernatural alternate history, sweeney todd, swirlygoth, swoopy music, tanith lee, tarot decks, tea, terry pratchett, the addams family, the black parade, the cure, the delicate dependency, the dresden dolls, the lost boys, the morganville vampires, the muppets, the nightmare before christmas, the sandman, the smiths, those who hunt the night, thrift shopping, thrifting, tim burton, top hats, toy monsters, trick or treating, tricorns, trying not to roll my eyes, urban legends, vampire kisses, vampires, velvet, victorian clothing, victorian gothic, vintage clothing, walking around cemeteries, wicked, world war z, yard sales, zombies, zombina and the skeletones
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