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([personal profile] musesfool May. 17th, 2026 10:28 pm)
Usually, I shower at night, but last night, I stayed up too late reading and didn't feel like delaying bedtime so I put the shower off until this morning. While I was in there, I noticed a spider, but it was on the far wall, and I was naked and without my glasses, so I let it live and it disappeared somewhere (the whole room is tiled, floor to ceiling, so I don't know where? but also. I don't want to know where).

This evening, I had to wash my hair, so there I was back in the shower, and I turned off the water and stepped back while I was lathering the shampoo, and there was the spider, dropping down from god knows where right in the middle of my shower!

So I had to get out - with my hair still full of shampoo - grab my glasses and a paper towel, so I could kill it, because come the fuck on, spider, that is not okay! The shower is sacrosanct!

It's a good thing I still have to stay up for an hour to detangle because I would not have been able to go to sleep right away after that, omg.

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([personal profile] aunt_zelda May. 17th, 2026 07:35 pm)
Anyone who remembers my old LJ profile ... apparently minors are getting into TGWTG now? They're poking around into old stuff. Idk why, surely they have better things to be interested in, but it's happening.

I'm not embarrassed or anything just like, it was a long time ago. After the various scandals (like, a known predator going after young fans, questionable business practices, firing women from the company with little warning, and a suicide) it's not something I'm especially looking forward to seeing dredged up again. Has it really been long enough for people to feel *nostalgic* about TGWTG?
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([personal profile] thehauntedlibrarian May. 17th, 2026 05:55 pm)
So everything is set up in Arizona for us, and yesterday I had a fun day with a childhood friend at a restaurant and arcade. I learned I actually enjoy margaritas!

I'm not looking forward to the drive at all, but one does what one must to avoid homelessness. We have a plan for when we get out there because land is dirt cheap (pun intended), and I don't have to go too far for creature comforts I'm used to.

That said, if my sister-in-law doesn't stop being a ranging BITCH and treat her eldest child better, we might have to get a bigger place faster than we're hoping so we can take in said eldest child.

Whisper, why are you using your "I'm sick" icon?

Good question. I am recovering from a very mild head cold that The One I Married picked up from coworkers. So it's been REALLY fun packing while chomping down throat lozenges and drinking fluids like no one's business.

All in all, I am looking forward to the new chapter I have been given, and I hope I do better in the desert this time than I did a decade ago.

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Yesterday, I made these ricotta cheesecake bars, for which I had to shell 62g of pistachios (oh, the humanity!), and they are okay, but either there is not enough butter or I had too much graham cracker crumb because the crust does not cohere. (I used pre-smashed crumbs because that is what I had and probably used too much. Recipes really should give you some sort of measurement beyond "7 or 8 graham crackers, crushed" for these things.)

I also made KAB pretzel rolls (half the recipe) and as always, they are delicious, even if the whole boiling step is annoying. I definitely recommend them, and if like me, you never remember that they have a small amount of butter (2 tbsp) that needs to be softened ahead of time, you can always just substitute the same amount of olive oil, also like me. *wry*

With the LIRR on strike, I'm not going into the office this week (I had already decided that anyway), so I didn't have to do any other baking, and I just bought some spring mix and grilled chicken strips so that'll be lunch for the week.

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My neighborhood book club is reading Deciding to See: The View from Nathan’s Bus. Seattle readers, especially those who ride the bus regularly, are familiar with Nathan Vass, who’s been driving for King County Metro long enough that I first read one of his pieces, “Ode to the 358”, way back in 2013. He’s also a storyteller, photographer, and filmmaker, and that skillset together with a sharp observational sense and the plethora of stories available on city buses—especially the routes and times of day he tends to drive—make for the kind of work that reminds us of our shared humanity.

For awhile now I’ve been struggling to articulate just what it is about the kinds of stories and artworks I seek, the experiences I look to have, my passion for stories and for tracking (two things which are intimately and inextricably linked)—what is the thing that I’m after?

It came to me while reading Deciding to See: kinship with the unfamiliar. Comfort zones can nourish us, give us space to rest and heal, and provide a sense of safety. They can also become prisons.

I had cause recently to re-read T.S. Eliot’s poem “The Hollow Men,” which is the origin of one of those phrases that has since become a colloquial saying, divorced from its original context:

This is the way the world ends
Not with a bang but a whimper


…minus that context it still retains a great deal of its original meaning and power, mind you.

Here, have it read by Jeremy Irons. Chilling.

Speaking of hollow men, the Atlantic article, What I Learned About Billionaires at Jeff Bezos’s Private Retreat, is enough to put you off your lunch. Every so often I interact with other people who worked at Amazon in the early days, and every so often one of these people comments on how much Jeff Bezos has changed. I don’t think he has.

I finally read Matthew Jackson’s essay on…well, it’s not really about “The Pitt,” that’s just his operative example, really it’s about storytelling and expectations and people who get absolutely outraged when a story’s plot doesn’t go the way they think it should. As he says, you can have whatever opinion you want about whatever’s happening on the screen (or on the page), but I agree with him that getting hung up on plot, to the point that you’re arguing for people to be fired, sells the entire experience of absorbing a story short. If one of the reasons I read, watch, listen is to acquire a feeling of kinship with the unfamiliar, part of that is intentionally immersing myself in the creator’s world. That’s not to say that I don’t often enjoy picking the thing apart afterwards, whether to work out how they did something or to analyze what I didn’t like about it, but I think there’s a difference between disagreeing with a creator’s choices and rendering a moral judgment about something that I personally didn’t like. Even when Roger Ebert wrote his review of North (the one that starts, “I hated, hated, hated this movie”), he wasn’t calling for the heads of the people responsible.

Awhile back I mentioned Jeff VanderMeer’s article for Orion magazine, about (generally speaking) how very odd it is that people go looking for cryptids like Sasquatch when there are amazing, verifiable, extant creatures out there. Such as bears.

Anyway, Orion did a Q&A with him and writer McKayla Coyle, who I wasn’t previously familiar with but whose work I now want to read. Check it out:



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([personal profile] styletto posting in [community profile] fandom_icons May. 16th, 2026 08:09 pm)
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([personal profile] coffeeandink May. 16th, 2026 06:13 pm)
Found via [personal profile] chestnut_pod.

There are so many posts I want to write, but this one is easy and also about books, so! I think everyone should do it so I can spy on your bookshelves.


  1. Take five books off your bookshelf.

    (I pulled everything from my physical TBR bookcase, in hopes that it will encourage me to read it.)

  2. Book #1 -- first sentence: "Anyone can write about a large city--large cities are open to everyone--but small cities can only be portrayed by people who love them."

    (Already ambiguities: I skipped the preface because this line is better.)

  3. Book #2 -- last sentence on page fifty: "However, I haven't yet read V.W.'s book."

  4. Book #3 -- second sentence on page one hundred: "What amazing childishness these old people were content to live in!"

    (Unexpected challenge: do I pick the second sentence or the second complete sentence?)

  5. Book #4 -- next to the last sentence on page one hundred fifty: "'I know.' Verna dropped the packages. A hard, harsh sob pressed at her throat. 'I hate him.' "

    (Yes, I am treating one paragraph of dialog plus action as a single sentence for the purposes of the meme. Fight me!)

  6. Book #5 -- final sentence of the book: "Eunice picked up her bag and guitar and closed the door to the storm."

  7. Make the five sentences into a paragraph:

    Anyone can write about a large city--large cities are open to everyone--but small cities can only be portrayed by people who love them. However, I haven't yet read V.W.'s book. What amazing childishness these old people were content to live in! 'I know.' Verna dropped the packages. A hard, harsh sob pressed at her throat. 'I hate him.' Eunice picked up her bag and guitar and closed the door to the storm.


    I promise it wouldn't make any more sense if I chose another option for step 5.



Book #1: Friendly City by Sofia Samatar
Book #2: The Diaries of Sylvia Townsend Warner, ed. Claire Harman
Book #3: Ready or Not by Mary Stolz
Book #4: The Room Opposite and Other Stories by F.M. Mayor
Book #5: Mojo Hand: An Orphic Tale by J.J. Phillips
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([personal profile] myrmidon posting in [community profile] fandom_icons May. 16th, 2026 12:01 pm)
Resident Evil Requiem (2026)
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Reading: I thought Sarah Rees Brennan's All Hail Chaos was a very satisfying followup to Long Live Evil, which is always a relief. One more to go! (The third book's title has been announced as Kill Your Darlings; I don't think a release date has been set yet?)

Someday I'll learn to properly make note of whether an ebook is a novella. Fonda Lee's Untethered Sky? A novella. Hopefully I got it on sale, given novella pricing in general, but I did really enjoy it.

Current read: To Ride a Rising Storm (Moniquill Blackgoose), just a few chapters in.

I also read The Vegetable Gardener's Bible (10th anniversary/2nd edition) up to the point where it starts going vegetable by vegetable, and then only read about the ones we're planting. (And I skipped the chapter on compost, because it's about making compost, and WOW do we not have space for that, even if we had the inclination.)

Watching: Another episode or two each of Justice in the Dark and Witch Hat Atelier.

Growing: [personal profile] scruloose got the planter assembled last weekend (IIRC) and we put a fair amount of soil in at the time (enough to keep it solidly in place, basically), but today we finally got out and finished filling it with the veggie-friendly soil and compost and actually planted the various lettuce and spinach seeds, leaving room for (we hope) a basil plant and a cabbage to go in. [personal profile] scruloose also got the frame for the planter's covers assembled and installed (the mesh cover is in place now).

We still haven't decided the ultimate fate of the disappointing Bloomerang lilac, but while we were out there [personal profile] scruloose gave it an aggressive pruning back so that it isn't taking up such a large proportion of our very limited space.

I just checked out the window, and as of 3:10 PM, the shade line is riiiiight at the edge of the planter and about to start creeping over it. (Any tomatoes we buy and the other type of cabbage will be going in pots on the other side of it, so hopefully will get at least a bit more sunlight each day.) I don't know yet what time that space starts getting direct sunlight in the morning.

ETA: By 3:40 PM, the planter is completely shaded, and the shade line is hitting the edge of the pot we had the Tiny Tim tomato in last year.
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([personal profile] dreadlordmrson May. 15th, 2026 10:32 pm)
My hand is finally recovered enough to draw again!
...as long as I take it easy.
There's been some atrophy, so I need to rebuild the muscles, and I get sore. But that's just a matter of practice, now.

Which finally allowed me to get around to doing a redesign of one of the secondary characters for Sex Kitten.
The Barista, formerly called Sean, went from a white guy to a black guy named Faruk.
His personality, interests, and role in the story are all the same. This is just a cosmetic change.

But, man...
I am so happy with how it's going so far.

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([personal profile] summerofhorrorexchange May. 15th, 2026 05:25 pm)
Nominations are now open for Summer of Horror 2026!

Please note that this year, we have made a few clarifying edits to the nomination instructions. You can find the guidelines here.

The tagset will be open for nominations until 8:00 PM EDT on May 21.
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([personal profile] pegkerr May. 15th, 2026 12:32 pm)
Since 2023, Minneapolis has been holding a free event in May every year called Doors Open. It is an “open house” event that takes place across dozens of venues in Minneapolis, inviting participants to explore the city’s story through its buildings and meaningful spaces. Here is the list of venues that was open for Doors Open 2026.

I've always thought it a good idea, because I think it's important to know about the place where you live. This is the third time that Eric and I have done it. The first year, we walked to the top of the Witch's Hat Tower (gorgeous views, but freezing weather, and I genuinely feared the wind would blow us off the top platform.) The last time we went, we toured the Scottish Rite Masonic Center, where we learned a lot of interesting history of Masons in Minnesota.

This year we went to the Chicago Avenue Fire Arts Center, located right at George Floyd Square, and the Purcell-Cutts House, one of Minnesota's foremost examples of the Prairie School of architecture which is now maintained by the Minneapolis Institute of Arts.

At the Chicago Avenue Fire Arts Center, we got to watch artists who were working at welding and blacksmithing, and we chatted for awhile with an artist who holds jewelry classes. As the name implies, the center specializes in all arts that use fire or spark.

The Purcell-Cutts House had Prairie School furniture that matched the architectural style, and it was absorbing to tour the space and learned about the families that lived there.

We plan to go again next year.

Image description: Top half: a neon sign reading "Neonistics" partially obscured by two figures: a figure in a welding hood welding a sheet of metal on the left and a woman hammering a glowing metal rod on an anvil. Top: a sign that reads "Chicago Avenue Fire Arts Center." Bottom Half: an elegant house with tall windows built in the Prairie School style, with the words "Purcell-Cutts House." Center: the words "Doors Open Minneapolis."

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([personal profile] sistawendy May. 15th, 2026 08:46 am)
Yesterday morning I got back from my morning walk to the grocery store to find a Black woman in her thirties or forties on the walkway that leads from my street to my place and East Neighbors'. She was... sniffing the wooden fence. No, there's nothing fragrant on the other side of the fence, even if there are some big, beautiful plants.

People cut through there all the time – there's a parking lot and an apartment building east of my East Neighbors – and I don't get my undies in a bunch about it. I've done that kind of thing. But then I saw the collapsible wagon with a blanket on top underneath my front stairs. 'OK,' thought I. 'Let's hope that's temporary.'

And it was, until I got back from my evening trip to the grocery store*. The wagon was back, and a couple of hours later, she was in a sleeping back on the concrete steps (!) down to the Wendling's apartment, right below my front step. I told her, "Hey! My son lives there!" I didn't catch all of her reply, but she asked if I had a dryer she could use on her blanket.

I started working the phone. Calling 911 on a Black woman who's not acting threatening is... not great. It could lead to someone getting shot. So, I called the police non-emergency number, which referred me to the crisis line, which I called. They took my info and someone took my info. Handled, right?

But neau. An hour goes by, and my inner Karen makes me call the crisis line again. "How late should I stay up?" I ask.
"We don't have an ETA."

Wayell, I woke up at 0515, and she was still there, now huddled against my son's front door to get out of last night's light rain. He opened the door and had words with her that I couldn't make out. I finally have enough and call 911. Our visitor packs up, but continues to hang out.

She skedaddled just minutes before the policeman showed up. I gave him the lowdown, and in return he told me this about the crisis line: they only have the resources to send people out between noon and 2100. Said the cop, if she comes back, call again.

First, that's not right. Of course people are going to call about homeless on their doorsteps when I did. That's when everybody looks for a place to sleep. Gosh, it's almost like a conspiracy to give the cops more to do. Second, information about the current state of this suckage would have been nice before or during my phone call with the crisis folks. Christ on a pogo stick!

And yes, I did call 911 on an apparently harmless Black woman with my expensively altered face. I'm aware of the optics. But you know what? My son shouldn't have to step over anyone to go to work.

Speaking of my son, he handled the whole thing with unexpected and admirable calm, sweeping up the visitor's cigarette butts and hosing down his doormat. He always seems to come through when I really need him to.

My place, and in particular the entrance to the Wendling's, are probably particularly attractive as a place to sleep outdoors: they're not visible from the street. Heaven help me, I'm wondering what I can to do to make it less appealing.



*As instructed by the Sculptor.
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