Yes, time for a new lesson at Gothic Charm School!

On Goths Dating Non-Goths; Or Dating Outside One’s Subcultural Boundries and Why It’s Okay.

As always, if people would help spread the word about the update, that would be lovely.


(And a big thank you goes out to [livejournal.com profile] staxxy for being a splendid beta-reader!)

From: [identity profile] theda-bara.livejournal.com


Dearest Mistress;
this has to be my favorite lesson. You see, I myself am married to a "normal". And an Army normal at that-but it's been the most rewarding relationship I've ever had. He's a true partner, we help in the spiritual growth of one another and have learned so much throughout our little journey.
He enjoys my "spooky" nature and affinity to bats-he even likes the Sisters of Mercy.
Dating a "mundane" can be rewarding, if anything they can be aware of a different mindset and inviting subculture.

From: [identity profile] mahariel.livejournal.com


As a goth married to a geek, this speaks volumes to me. He'll get dressed up for me, and I'll get dressed down for him, but we have many different interests and the ability to allow each other to have our quirks and perks without expecting ourselves to eventually "grow into" the other's circle. It's been 12 years since I realized he was the man for me, and it's been a wonderful ride.

His sighs and eyerolls usually come when he finds me oogling a new pair of boots, or a furry article of clothing. *grin*

-Victoria

From: [identity profile] staxxy.livejournal.com


yay! I love the edits!!! *shakes pompoms*

and you know I love being the beta reader. :D It's not very often that any of us gets the opportunity to put a little polish on the already super sparkly pink diamonds. ;)
ashbet: (Awwww)

From: [personal profile] ashbet


Very nicely done . . .

. . . and this from someone whose Decidedly Non-Goth husband eyerolls at her on a regular basis ;)

-- A <3

From: [identity profile] shoindiematrix.livejournal.com


It brings a smile to my face (especially considering my sickly constitution, as of the moment) to see that there's another lovely update.
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