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cupcake_goth ([personal profile] cupcake_goth) wrote2011-06-30 05:30 pm

Writer's Block: Upon further review

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Ahahahahahaha. Um.

Yeah, my answer to these sorts of questions USED to be no, because everything that has happened to me has made me who I am, and I'm pretty happy with how things have turned out.

However. My views have undergone a bit of a change, and if I could go change an event in my life (and not have any paradox-inducing repercussions or horrible things happen as a result), then my choices are:

1. Mom's death. Yeah, I'm trying to learn not to dwell on all the what ifs about it, but some days are harder than others, y'know?

2. A few REALLY DUMB, BAD choices I made a few years ago, when I was veering toward losing my mind. Things are fine now (better than fine, in many ways), but when my stress nightmares replay bits of that time, I want to shake some sense into my past self very, very hard.

[identity profile] staxxy.livejournal.com 2011-07-01 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, there are a couple of choices I would have made differently if I knew then what I know *now*. I can think of 3 off the top of my head, all of which involve roommates from more than a decade ago. None of which would change who I am now.

[identity profile] 19-crows.livejournal.com 2011-07-01 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
It's good not to dwell on the what-if's about your mother's death, but it seems fine to me that that's one thing you'd change. Losing someone is hard no matter what.

[identity profile] burrell.livejournal.com 2011-07-01 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I am with you on the first one. It's been years, and yet if I could bring back my parents and make them healthy, I would.